justinfjthings

A blog dedicated to all INFJs, relationships with other types, memes, aesthetics and my personal struggles™ Main blog @dementhia Overwatch blog @widowbutt

INFJ: omg you need to take better care of yourself, you deserve it boo, whatever you need I’m there ok

Also INFJ: *hasn’t drank water in three days straight*

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Tfw people get offended when you tell them you keep your birthday private on social media so you don’t get unnecessary messages from unimportant people because you know the people who appreciate you don’t need a notification to remember it????¿¿¿ Like what the fuck kind of entitlement is that? You want me to keep my birthday public because you don’t want to bother remembering it so you can congratulate me half-assedly? Fuck off.

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Question:

Hey, here's a secret. I'ved liked an ENFJ for months now but I haven't confessed to him yet. I don't want to ruin our relationship, pretty much because we're already so close. It's hard being an INFJ because you try your best being subtle about your feelings so they wouldn't know. I've actually wanted to get rid of my feelings for a long time now (because I want to stay very good friends with him) but what do I do? Especially that he's so clingy I can't avoid him.

Answer:

Oh my god, you have to ask him out! Whatever he says, it’s going to be easier than this, trust me! 👍❤️

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INFJ: Happy Birthday! I love you!

INTJ: Did you get me cake?

INFJ: No, didn’t your mum already make two?

INTJ: PSHHH- smh

I bought him an expensive ass perfume and all he cares about is cake bless his soul I love him so much (he’s turning 29 btw)

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INFJ: Happy Birthday! I love you!

INTJ: Did you get me cake?

INFJ: No, didn’t your mum already make two?

INTJ: PSHHH- smh

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Question:

what you think about intp with infj?

Answer:

They can work well together! One of my close friends is INFJ and his girlfriend of 5 years now is INTP. 👌 Just needs more patience on both sides.

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Question:

hi what do you think about intp?

Answer:

I love INTPs! My mom is INTP 🤗💕

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Question:

You asked for a secret, so here goes... I'm in love. But he'll never love me back, and I've accepted it. I'm content to watch him write his own story and read it later, even if my tears stain a few of the pages sometimes. ♥️

Answer:

This resonates… ❤️ I’ve been there and it’s so bitter sweet. But I know for a fact that you’ll meet someone who looks at you the same way you look at him now.


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Cowoker: hey how u doing

Me, trying to not have a mental breakdown every time someone tries to small talk: hey Tim good to see you yeah great how are you how are the kids hope you had a great vacation say hello to your wife for me yeah I’ll text her the recipe gotta go now BYEEEEEEEE

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Tell me a secret, get something off your chest.

I’m here for u. 💕

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Virgo season officially started

May the Mercury be with you

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How does the INFJ doorslam work? Easy 13 steps.

1. Find a friend/partner

2. Get a close relationship

3. Ignore red flags

4. Ignore them some more

5. Yep, that’s a red flag all right

6. No, no it’s completely fine

7. EVERYTHING IS FINE

8. IS IT ME, AM I THE ASSHOLE?!

9. Yeah it’s definitely me I’m garbage

10. *Ni kicks in*

11. Oh. OH. Ooooooooh. Yep. You betcha.

12. *blocked* *deleted* *ghosted*

13. … Fucking asshole.

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Some thoughts

Guys. I had a little time to reflect on things. I am really grateful that my little brother is getting better. We’re talking to a lawyer and we’re going to solve this sooner or later.

All things aside, I just want to send some love to all of the weirdos. The outcasts and the ones that feel like don’t belong. You matter and you are important! No one can take your integrity and sense of self - never let go of that. As an INFJ I have a tendency to defend others to a fault. However there are some things I can’t forgive. You are allowed to feel special but remember that it doesn’t make you better than others.

When people let that get to their heads, bad things happen. And innocent people suffer. Just remember to look out for each other. ❤️

P. S. I have no problem calling out others if they get out of line. That’s why I doorslammed a bunch of toxic relationships. Sometimes it’s necessary for your own good!

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Some people really are assholes. I don’t condone violence ever. Nor does my brother. Don’t @ me with that bullshit. If you think for a second that someone deserves to be physically hurt you need to leave.

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justinfjthings:

I’m sorry for not being active lately. I’ve had something terrible happen in my family. My little brother got assaulted physically and he’s now in recovery from all the heavy injuries. I have no words for how evil some people can be. My little brother just turned 18. He’s never been problematic, never got in fights, never got in trouble with the law, never drinks or takes drugs. Just an example of a beautiful hard-working and the gentlest being you can imagine. Wouldn’t hurt a fly. As an ENFP he’s been there for anyone that needed help but always kept his integrity and defended the people closest to him. I feel like I’m living a huge nightmare, feeling things I’ve never felt before. In a really dark place looking for retaliation. He was defending me, our parents, and his closest friends from slurs and general disgusting and destructive behaviour a band of young delinquents has put upon him.

I will be with him through the whole journey and taking care of him, and I know the person who did this to him will face judgement sooner or later.

Thank you for reading this and remember to take care of your loved ones.

Update:

My brother is in steady recovery, the only thing that couldn’t probably be avoided is that he caught an infection due to the injuries. Having a broken jaw leaves you to breathe on your mouth most of the time, and having lost a tooth, it was vulnerable to bacteria. So he’s taking medication for that and we’re still doing a lot of tests and checkups. But it’ll be better soon, I’m sure of it.

On the flip side we’ve got a lawyer and the police are involved and boy I’m not gonna sleep well until that guy pays. (:

I want to share my sincere gratitude to everyone that wished my brother a fast recovery and words of reassurance, I guarantee that every thought counts.

Stay safe everyone, and hopefully I’ll be back to my cheerful self too very soon. I miss creating new content for you guys!

Lots of love,

JustINFJthings

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I’m sorry for not being active lately. I’ve had something terrible happen in my family. My little brother got assaulted physically and he’s now in recovery from all the heavy injuries. I have no words for how evil some people can be. My little brother just turned 18. He’s never been problematic, never got in fights, never got in trouble with the law, never drinks or takes drugs. Just an example of a beautiful hard-working and the gentlest being you can imagine. Wouldn’t hurt a fly. As an ENFP he’s been there for anyone that needed help but always kept his integrity and defended the people closest to him. I feel like I’m living a huge nightmare, feeling things I’ve never felt before. In a really dark place looking for retaliation. He was defending me, our parents, and his closest friends from slurs and general disgusting and destructive behaviour a band of young delinquents has put upon him.

I will be with him through the whole journey and taking care of him, and I know the person who did this to him will face judgement sooner or later.

Thank you for reading this and remember to take care of your loved ones.

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Are you a dog or a cat person?

Me:

I literally have a food chain in my house don’t make me take sides.

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justinfjthings:

mbti blog: *blooming*

me on my main blog: hello 200 porn bots how u doin

*tumbleweed passes by*

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mbti blog: *blooming*

me on my main blog: hello 200 porn bots how u doin

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INFJ: I’m sorry but I disagree with you on that.

ISTJ: Well, I disagree with you!

INFJ: Ok!

ISTJ: Ok.

INFJ: Hmph.

ISTJ: Hmm!

*one minute later*

INFJ: Hey wanna grab a cup of coffee over there?

ISTJ: I was thinking the same thing.❤️

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