Let’s say a guy wants to shot their shot with you at like a coffee shop, library or like park, what is the best way to go about it without making it awkward or creepy.
oooo that’s a tough one. maybe im not the best person to ask because i don’t like being approached by men in public. if i notice someone’s cute or interesting I’ll keep looking their way while lowkey wanting them to talk to me. It really depends on the situation but being confident is nice and trying to be a friend first is important to me. if you start asking for my number or if i have a bf I get creeped out. I think I’m more approachable when I’m hanging with friends but I know that can sometimes deter men from approaching in the first place but if a guy can strike up a friendly convo with my homies i’ll probably be more open to them
i have been following you since your flickr days. are there any friends or experiences you miss from high school ?
omg at the first sentence.
I miss nothing from high school. it was the absolute worst time of my life. it was so traumatic that my mind has blocked a lot of it out and I don’t remember a lot of the memories or people. i went to 3 different schools, got bullied / slut shamed, I had people telling me to kill myself, I did a lot of self destruction, depression, straightened my hair everyday. and the person i was in high school is just so far away from who I am now. i think there were times where I was unkind / bitchy to people. I wasn’t happy with who I was, what I was going through and I had so much pain and trauma that it became my entire identity. I know there were probably some good times and good people that I miss but these things are so buried within me that someone else will have to remind me in order for me to remember.